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Submission is different for everyone, even my own submission varies depending on the person I am with and it has changed over time. For me it is about surrendering control, pleasing someone else and trusting them to care for my needs; the more completely I am able to do that the more rewarding the experience. I do however consider myself a sub rather than a slave.
Nine levels of submission describes a spectrum of submission which can be divided into 9 broad. Non-submissive masochist or kinky sensualist Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up control; more about the sensations and deriving pleasure from them. Has a large degree of control over the scene. Pseudo-submissive, play slave Like to feel subservient but play is always on the submissives terms.
Includes fetishists such as foot worshipers. True submissive, non-slave Gives up control temporarily and only dictates the scene in general terms. Seeks direct pleasure rather than pleasure through serving the dominant. True submissive, play slave Gives up control temporarily and only dictates the scene in general terms. Uncommitted, short term, semi-slave Control is given up within limits.
Gains pleasure from serving the dominant in both erotic and non-erotic ways but is free to stop at any time. Full-time, consentual, real slave Only a few broad limits. It turns out that we were both much more comfortable around the threshold. Garth and I are currently nine levels of submission 3 but I envisage this also becoming a as he becomes more experienced. We have recently added a new element to our play which indicates the beginning and end of my submission which feels like a ificant change and makes it easier for me to get myself into the right mental space.
Maurice and Roy are two very different eggs, both compared to Wayne and Gath, and to each other, so it will be interesting to see where things go with them. I have changed in many other ways, might this change too? If the level which I attain is limited by my partner could I have been comfortable as a 7 is Wayne had been more committed to it? Alternatively, could I only ever enjoy submission with an erotic context?
Sadly with many doms i am a 9 i have no limits and i will do anything to make my dom happy including changing who i am. Like Like. Their dom role play reflects their behaviour and personality. I suspect it is quite common to be a sub only in the bedroom and equal out of it. This makes it easier for both you and your dom as there is no confusion over what the dynamic is at that moment.
I think I will be writing another post on what makes a good dom, I would like to know your thoughts on that. Like Liked by 1 person. Hopefully you will find a balance that satisfies both of you. Good night beautiful people, CherryPi. Share this: Facebook Twitter.
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