Non sexual bdsm

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I mostly hear this from people who are new to the scene. I attribute this to the fact that most of what you see and read in the vanilla world about BDSM is connected to sex and sexual fetish. Mainstream reports or people that want to sell books want to make it titillating to sell more and get more viewers. First I need to break down sexual vs. I am going to be very literal. Many people would argue that every scene, all play, is sexual. Well, first of all, not all play is about sexual arousal.

However, that is a discussion for another day. For my purpose I am using non-sexual play to mean that no sexual acts are performed during the scene. Does this mean there may not be any sensual energy? Of course not. The energy between play partners is not fully connected to the physical acts performed during the scene. It may even increase arousal and desire if there is no sexual physical touch — non sexual bdsm it acts as a huge tease in a way.

You may be left wanting more and perhaps your play with that partner does in fact, become physically sexual in nature the next time you get together. This scenario can really boggle minds!

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I will break this down to two different situations. One is where there is non sexual bdsm arousal, however, it has nothing to do with the partner and is actually all about the play, or implement sthat is being used. So long as the ogre was skilled at using the flogger. How non-sexual play can be absolutely amazing and satisfying in its own way! Jennifer Masri is a d Marriage and Family Therapist, specializing in Alternative Lifestyles for individual and relationship issues.

about Jennifer on her blog, A Kink Shrink. Is there anything inherently wrong with me for only being interested in BDSM, and Kink for sexual purposes? Will I be hated, judged, shamed, and shunned by everyone in the BDSM community for being a sex maniac who literally sexualizes every aspect of my life? Is there anything wrong with choosing that life style? Does that make me a limited bore who needs to change?

Does that make me bad, or mentally ill, or unhealthy, or an unenlightened fool who needs fixing, or am I fine exactly as I am? This article is only meant to normalize non-sexual play as an alternative. I am both a little and a sub. Little me is non sexual and I am married and have two kids so play with Miss is strictly non sexual also. I am in a new non sexual relationship. I am aroused bUT we have rulesnon sexual bdsm not mine, that say not sex. My Dom tell me what clothes to wear, what to eat, when to speak and not.

We are exploring the other ways we can expand without sex. Would you mind sharing some of the rewards and punishments that you use in your nonsexual relationship? Yes I can understand the confusion. I wonder if providing a basic vocabulary listing with definitions could clarify. Perhaps the problem lies in the BDSM community needing a separate dictionary? Yeah, most of my play is not about sex at all. I definitely shared in this misconception when I first started playing in the scene.

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Now non-sexual play the norm for new play partners at least for me. If any potential play partners tell you they cannot play without getting sexual then you should find another person to play with. Ever since I entered the play party scene I have done nothing but nonsexual scenes. Both of the ladies I have done scenes with are in relationships.

Non sexual bdsm Dominant partners enjoy their ladies top me. I have reached subspace several times. It is a longer lasting and better high then any orgasm I have ever experienced. One day I will find the right partner for things to get sexual. Until then I enjoy things they way they are. Every time i play it is nonsexual. I enjoy the play no end, but there is no sex in it or resulting from it. Play is what i love to do, what i live for sometimes. The Energy exchange is powerful and immense and perfect when i am playing with someone i like to play with.

Have you had a wonderful non-sexual scene? Please share in the comments section below!

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